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A Skin Care Journey – Part 1

I’m not sure where or when this recently published book – Beyond Soap: The Real Truth About What You Are Doing to Your Skin and How to Fix It for a Beautiful, Healthy Glow by Dr. Sandy Skotnicki – came on to my radar, but I know it did because when I saw it displayed during a recent bookshop trip I recognized it immediately as something that I had heard about and was a must-read for me.

I’ve always been a bit skin obsessed and doing what I can so that my skin is blemish free, smooth and bouncy. The more I learn the more I realize that most of my efforts (but not all) were misguided. It’s taken me more than two decades to truly understand that when it comes to the skin less is more.

As a teen I started with the compulsive habit of over cleaning (thank you Noxema ) and over exfoliating (thank you St Ives apricot pit scrubs). Later I spent so much money on awesome smelling and feeling products that unfortunately had unremarkable results. I layered product onto product in hopes that the effects of lotion 1 might be remedied by lotion 2 (or 3 or 4 or 5). Through out the years there have been breakouts (and picking), redness, stinging, itchiness and most recently extreme dryness, hives, swelling and rashes.

A few years back this started to happen

I was put on prednisone, had patch testing done (results all negative), took prescription anti-histamines whenever I felt the swelling start (it began with a tingle and an itch), and walked around with an epi-pen for a year. I tried to figure out what was trigging it and my best guess was alcohol (I was drinking pretty heavily back then). I was using all natural products without parabens and pegs in them so I assumed my skincare wasn’t at fault. I can’t know for sure. What I do know is that my life was a bit of a mess and had been since 2010. I had my last drink December 27th, 2012 and worked on sobriety big time. I haven’t had a reaction like that since then.

What I have had is very dry skin and redness

And weird breakouts

Now, this may be due to aging. I’m perimenopausal after all. Last summer I was diagnosed with fibroids, endometrial hyperplasia and severe anemia. I got treated (as well as an IUD for the progesterone) and those conditions have greatly improved. I’m also sleeping through the night for the first time in 4 years and have fewer night sweats. Lots has improved, but, my goodness, is my face ever really, really dry and still breaking out.

It’s not clear in this pic, but there were close to 100 pustules on my forehead. Yes, I counted. This blogger likes her data. ;-)

Now onto the book Beyond Soap and what it’s inspired me to do

Stay tuned for part 2 of this entry!


That Smell Down There & How To Get Rid Of It

Bacterial Vaginosis & Perimenopause

Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) can occur when the vaginal environment experiences a change in flora equilibrium – when healthy lactobacilli is diminished which then creates extra production of less desirable bacteria. This harmful bacteria produces enzymes that break down vaginal protein and causes an unpleasant discharge and odour. What researchers and doctors are discovering is that this change is often due to an increase in pH (normal levels are 3.5-5 on a scale of 0 to 14 – so low and acidic).

An increase in pH can be caused by: menstruation (blood has a pH of 7.4), semen (ph of 7.1-8), perimenopause  and menopause (because when estrogen declines vaginal pH rises), douching, medications (allergy and cold medications can dry out tissues and sometimes affect vaginal pH), and antibiotics (they are meant to kill the harmful bacteria but also end up killing off beneficial bacteria).

Not treating BV can increase the risk of contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted infections (if exposed), increase the risk of premature delivery if you’re pregnant, and the development of pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). Serious stuff! So besides the symptoms being rather unpleasant, it’s a dangerous condition for your genitourinary well-being.

Symptoms of BV: unusual vaginal discharge (white, milky or gray – also foamy or watery), strong fish-like odour (especially after sex or exercise), burning when urinating, itching around the outside of the vagina, and vaginal irritation.

There still isn’t a lot known about BV even though it’s the most common vaginal infection. When you do a Google search though you end up with a TONNE of results (hey, it’s how you likely found this post), but most are upsells for booklets of at-home treatments that have not been tested for efficacy or safety. I think if you think you have BV, it’s better to consult your doctor, get a proper diagnosis and appropriate treatment.

If you test positive for BV the likely treatment will be a prescription medication called metronidazole (oral tablets or vaginal gel). It does work, but even so most people will have a reoccurrence within 3-12 months. Finding ways to keep the vagina happily balanced pH wise after the prescription can help keep BV at bay. It requires being quite diligent about your flora. And yes, I’m speaking from experience.

My Situation

The last few years I’ve dealt with recurrent bouts of BV – especially after my period. Basically, I’m getting a double punch of high pH. From my period and from my estrogen levels because of perimenopause. I also take allergy and sinus medication and I’m generally quite dry EVERYWHERE I have mucous membranes so I think my pH might be affected by this as well. What I don’t do is have unprotected sex and I never douche. At least I have that going for me.

I went to my local sexual health clinic (Clinique A in Montreal and later The Sexual Health Centre in Ottawa) as part of my regular STI testing routine and brought up my symptoms. I knew something was fishy (bahahaha) and I was right.


I’ve been prescribed metronidazole for BV a few times. It’s harsh on your stomach, but I don’t drink alcohol and I’m good with taking medication on a full stomach so I didn’t have any side effects. The BV cleared up fast and I was fine for two or three months, but then it came back. My health care practitioner then suggested a specially formulated Vitamin C tablet called Prevegyne that is inserted vaginally. It helps create and maintain a more acidic state. It’s available behind the counter at pharmacies, but isn’t covered by most insurance plans (in Quebec and Ontario – I cannot speak to other areas). It isn’t a one time treatment. It’s something to take to treat as well as regularly to prevent.

By the way, don’t take regular vitamin C tablets. They are not the right dose and they are not capsuled the same way. It will burn!

In the name of science I have also tried other over the counter BV treatments that aim to treat and prevent. Like the Prevegyne they will most likely have to be used once a month for a few days (usually after your period) to keep the bacteria at a healthy, pleasant equilibrium. Your health practitioner can help you figure out how much and how often to take them.

Canesbalance Bacterial Vaginosis Gel supports healthy vaginal flora by restoring vaginal pH with a lactic acid formulation.

Relactagel contains lactic acid (which restores and maintains vaginal acidity favourable to the growth of lactobacilli) and glycogen which provides nutrients for lactic acid producing bacteria.

Probaclac is a multi-strain probiotic complex that is inserted into the vagina nightly for 14 days to help build up the lactobacilli and prevent overgrowth of the harmful bacteria.

RepHresh Gel contains policarbophil which is a bioadhesive ingredient that can maintain a healthy physiological vaginal pH.

RepHresh Pro Biotic is an oral capsule that contain patented and clinically tested strains of probiotic lactobacillus that have been shown to balance yeast and bacteria.

I will write about my experiences with each treatment in future blog posts. For now, do know that I think they all showed some benefit. I think by addressing vaginal pH we have finally turned the corner when it comes to managing this condition (not eliminating it, but managing it).

I wish the science brains had figured it out sooner!



The V Book: A Doctor’s Guide to Complete Vulvovaginal Health

Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever


Bacterial Vaginosis and Diet

Treating Bacterial Vaginosis with Vaginal Vitamin C


BV is condition that can affect those of us with vaginas whether we are CIS, trans or gender nonbinary. I’m trying to write in a way that reflects this, but I may make mistakes from time to time. Thanks for your patience and understanding.

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Why Do I Have Heavy Periods & What Helped

Endometrial Hyperplasia

During perimenopause you typically experience high levels of estrogen at the same time as lower levels of progesterone. It’s a bit later when estrogen begins to drop too and you are closer to a year without a period (that’s menopause). This high estrogen low progesterone state can cause Endometrial Hyperplasia (the excessive proliferation of the cells that line the uterus). Basically, the build up of your uterine lining (what you shed when you have your period). This condition can cause heavy and long periods and leave you at higher risk of uterine cancer.

Heavy and long periods – I know them well. I’ve been dealing with them for about a year. It’s been painful, uncomfortable and annoying, but to be honest I didn’t give them much thought beyond tracking on my period app (I use Flow). What preoccupied me more were the night sweats and the sleep disruptions that have plagued me on a near nightly basis for a year (and about ten days a month the year before). I didn’t realize that the heavy and long periods could be a more serious issue until I saw a gynecologist and was diagnosed with Endometrial Hyperplasia.

How did I get diagnosed?

In February I went to the Sexual Health Clinic for my regular STI testing. While there I also asked about getting the Mirena IUD. At age 46 I absolutely don’t want to get pregnant so I was interested in a back up to condoms. I thought an IUD would be ideal because it isn’t estrogen based like most oral contraceptives. I’ve been on them before and they have made me feel horrible – neutral, nonsexual, unfeminine, and emotionally flat. That’s the best way I can describe it.

Anyway, the Mirena works differently than most birth control pills.  It releases small amounts of levonorgestrel (a synthetic form of progesterone) which thickens cervical mucus and helps prevent sperm from reaching or fertilizing an egg. It also thins out the uterine lining and partially suppresses ovulation.

The nurse I spoke to thought it would be a great option for me as the progesterone would help ease my periods and likely help with my night sweats and sleep issues. She didn’t want me to go ahead with it quite yet though. I needed to see a gynecologist for an exam to measure my uterus (IUDs are recommended for women who have had a child – I haven’t, but it turns out I have a large uterus for a childless woman – 9 centimetres), have a biopsy in case of abnormal cell build up, and get a transvaginal ultrasound to measure the thickness of the endometrium.

I was able to see the gynecologist in June and while the biopsy did come back negative for abnormal cells, my results showed significant build up of my lining. So yes, an IUD would be a good option for me, but first I would need to have my lining thinned out a bit. My gynecologist prescribed me a synthetic progesterone (medroxyprogesterone acetate).


Like most every other prescription medication medroxyprogesterone acetate has side effects. The ones I experienced (especially when I first started taking it) were – anxiety (I had vivid PTSD panic attacks), breast swelling and tenderness, and water retention (I’ve gained about 10lbs because of bloating). I think my body has adjusted to it because the anxiety is much less pronounced (and no longer hallucinatory) and my breasts are not as sore. I’m still pretty bloated in my face, belly and limbs – OK everywhere – but I’ve gotten used to it. I’m trying to embrace it even.

I also experienced one specific side effect that was very welcomed. Sleep! You need to take it before bed because it can make you drowsy. Since I started taking it 2 weeks ago I’ve been able to sleep through the night for the first time in about 2 years. No night sweats and no sleep disturbances. It’s been amazing. I hope when I get the IUD this continues. Fingers crossed!

One More Thing

One of the consequences of very heavy periods can be significant anemia (low iron). So no surprise (except to me) this is something I’m experiencing as well. But I will write all about that in my next blog post.


My go-to-resource for perimenopause information is Barbara Taylor, M.D. as well as  The Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research at the University of British Columbia. I think The Mayo Clinic’s overview is useful too.

In terms of books, I learned a lot from The Estrogen Window: The Breakthrough Guide to Being Healthy, Energized, and Hormonally Balanced-Through Perimenopause, Menopause, and Beyond. Menopause Confidential: A Doctor Reveals the Secrets to Thriving Through Midlife (except for the lubricant recommendations) is a great easy read on the subject matter. I also like Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever.

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Perimenopause – A Quick Definition

I’d like to start with a few definitions from The Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research at the University of British Columbia. It’s an incredible resource by the way – the most useful I’ve found so far.

Perimenopause is the period of time before and for a year after the last menstrual period during which ovarian hormonal patterns, experiences and sociocultural roles change. The average age at which irregular cycles develop is about age 47.

Perimenopause probably begins several years before that in CIS women with regular cycles when the ovaries start are making fluctuating amounts of estrogen (often higher than before perimenopause) and lower amounts of progesterone.

Like menopause, perimenopause is a normal part of a woman’s life cycle.


Dr. Northrup

Physicians Committee For Responsible Medicine

The Centre for Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation Research

My YouTube Playlist of Favourite Videos on Perimenopause


By the way, I’m using the word CIS woman, but this information can also apply to nonbinary and transgender folks with an XX reproductive system who haven’t taken hormones as part of transition.

I’m not a doctor or registered dietitian. The purpose of my blog is to share my experiences with simple intentional living and holistic nutrition. When it comes to your health and wellbeing, do your research and consult with your doctor or medical professional before making any lifestyle changes.

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