Hello Wonderful You!

Welcome to My New Blog

My name is Seska, and I am thrilled to have you here. This blog is a space where I can share my thoughts, experiences, and passions with the world. From my health journey and overcoming challenges to my insights on aging, wellness, mindfulness, and everything in between, I am excited to open up and connect with others through my writing. I hope that my words will inspire, empower, and perhaps even motivate you to embark on your own journey toward health and well-being. Thank you for joining me on this adventure, and I look forward to sharing it with you.

More About Me

Since 1998 I’ve been using the World Wide Web to document my life. Yes, even before it was called blogging and video streaming was a thing. What I shared was different than most— my sex life on my independent adult website.

What began as a simple independent adult site and form of expression turned into so much more. It became my life’s work — promoting sexual health, pleasure, and empowerment through the exploration of erotica, personal reflection, sexual experiences, and well-researched resources. 

Then in 2010, a little after the economic crash, I had a crash of my own. My mid-life crisis was rather classic. I was terribly unhappy with where I was in life. I was having panic attacks and struggling to get through each day. The adult industry had changed so much (hello, an explosion of pirated porn) and I didn’t know what my purpose was anymore. To top it all off, my marriage ended. I was lost.

Thankfully, I had this tiny glimmer of hope that told me things could be different. In between the messy mistakes and bad choices, I started making good choices. I tried new things like studying nutrition, mindfulness, and sustainable living. I did a bunch of awesome personal growth work with tools like Danielle LaPorte’s The Desire Map. I made therapy a priority. I got sober. Slowly I came out the other end. I figured out who I was, what I wanted out of life, and how to make that happen for myself.

I made a choice to survive and then took action to thrive. Yes, THRIVE.

I’ve always felt driven to share my experiences and knowledge with others so folks could learn from both my challenges AND my breakthroughs. If you are struggling with life’s challenges, in particular feminine aging, I want this for you too. Yes, wonderful you.

I want to add value to your life and help you live with a little more ease and joy than you had before we met. I do that by writing here on my blog and social media, public speaking, leading workshops, and creating adult-only content from a mature woman’s perspective.