Seska Lee

Seska

  • Welcome

    Welcome to my little corner of the internet! I’m Seska Lee—content creator, writer, and advocate for embracing the beauty, power, and joy of aging.

    At 53, I’ve spent more than two decades creating online, carving out a unique space for myself as I explored my womanhood, challenged stereotypes, and embraced the evolving journey of self-expression, all while empowering others to celebrate their authenticity and redefine what it means to thrive at every stage of life.

    Here’s a little about me:

    • I’m passionate about personal growth, simplicity, and finding joy in life’s everyday moments.
    • I’ve been sober from alcohol since December 27th, 2013, and I believe in living mindfully and intentionally.
    • My lifestyle choices reflect my commitment to equanimity and vitality—no smoking, daily SPF, walks in nature, therapy and focusing on sustainable, healthy habits that help me look and feel my best.
    • I got my first few greys in my 20s and stopped colouring it in 2015. I shaved it all off and grew it back to its natural salt and pepper (in the back) AND silver (in the front) beauty.
    • I love coffee, the soap opera General Hospital, and a fresh bang trim.

    How did I get started online?

    In 1998, I took a leap of faith and created an independent adult website, Seska’s Amateur XXX Page, chronicling my intimate life through photos, videos, live camming, and journals. My background includes BAs in Psychology and Child Studies from Concordia University, where I originally worked as an educational consultant specializing in learning disabilities. Pivoting to the adult industry allowed me to explore eroticism, relationships, body image, and feminism in my work, leading to articles, essays, and speaking engagements at universities, conferences, and media platforms such as HBO’s Real Sex Xtra.

    Over the years, my focus evolved. In 2010, I shifted toward personal development and holistic well-being, writing about nutrition, wellness, aging, and personal growth while working as a burlesque performer, cabaret producer, and educator. Then in 2019, I found myself drawn back to adult content creation—this time embracing my role as a mature woman.

    Today

    Today, I’m an XBIZ Creator Award nominated (2023 and 2024) cam performer on Streamate, sharing self-produced content on my personal paysite and multiple fansite and clip store platforms. My work remains focused on destigmatizing sex work, empowering mature women, and sharing the message that aging is fabulous.

    Through my writing, social media, and adult content, I blend all my passions and interests to create a unique space that explores wellness, beauty, eroticism, and self-care. I share motivational, informative, and empowering content alongside my work as an adult content creator, offering tips and insights for women (and the men who adore them) navigating life in their 40s and beyond. Life only gets better when we embrace who we are and what we love, and I’m here to celebrate that journey with you.

    Seska

  • Unlocking the Potentials of Affiliate Marketing in Adult Content Creation

    Affiliate marketing is a performance-based advertising model where a company rewards affiliates (individuals or other companies) for each visitor or customer brought by the affiliate’s own marketing efforts. Essentially, it’s a way for content creators like myself to monetize our platforms by promoting products or services we believe in.

    In the realm of adult content, affiliate marketing operates on the same principles but is adapted to the unique products and services that our industry offers. As a seasoned sex educator and content creator, I carefully select partners whose products align with my values of promoting healthy, feminist, and sex-positive experiences.

    Here’s how it works for me as an affiliate in the adult content space:

    1. I choose products or services that resonate with my brand and are of value to my audience—be it sex toys, wellness supplements, adult entertainment and educational platforms.
    2. I then share these products with my listeners, readers, and fans through my various channels, including my website and social media, using unique affiliate links.
    3. When someone makes a purchase through one of these links, I receive a commission. This not only supports my work but also helps my audience access quality products that enhance their sexual well-being.

    Affiliate marketing is a symbiotic relationship where transparency and trust are paramount. My followers can be confident that any product I endorse has been vetted for quality, ethical production, and relevance to our shared journey of sexual discovery and empowerment.

    By engaging in affiliate marketing, I’m able to extend my mission beyond the realm of education and into the practical aspects of sexual health and pleasure. It’s a way to provide for my community while also sustaining my platform, ensuring that I can continue to offer informed perspectives and empowering content for years to come.

    Brands and Companies I Promote

    BrandItScan
    service to identify, monitor, and remove counterfeit and pirated content and infringements

    FansRevenue
    listing of adult content creators and cam models

    Jerkmate
    adult website where I offer private shows

  • Content Collaboration

    Navigating Adult Content Co-Productions with Seska

    As an experienced and discerning adult content creator, I approach each collaboration with a blend of professionalism, creativity, and a commitment to safety. When considering a content collaboration or co-production, there are several key elements that I seek to ensure a successful partnership. Let’s delve into the essentials that form the foundation of any project I undertake.

    Compliance with Legal Documentation

    2257 Documentation: In the adult industry, compliance with legal requirements is non-negotiable. Any potential collaborator must be prepared to provide proper age verification records as per Section2257 of the United States Code. This ensures that all participants are of legal age and that the content produced is lawful.

    Model Release Documents: Clear and comprehensive model release agreements are crucial. These documents protect all performers and producers by outlining the permissions and rights related to the use and distribution of the content.

    Social Media and Pricing Agreements

    Social Media Promotion: Collaborators must agree to promote the content on their social media platforms, ensuring mutual visibility and exposure.

    Pricing Agreements: Transparency in pricing is essential for a harmonious working relationship. We must establish clear terms regarding compensation, revenue sharing, and any expenses associated with the production. This ensures that both parties are on the same page and can focus on creating exceptional content.

    On-Camera Consent and Interview

    On-Camera Consent: Prior to any filming, a clear and explicit off-camera as well as on-camera consent discussion is a must. This not only reinforces the legal and ethical framework of our collaboration but also serves as a transparent record for viewers that all activities are consensual and agreed upon by all parties involved.

    Pre-Scene Interview: An interview segment before the scene adds depth to the content, providing context and allowing performers to express their desires and boundaries. This interview serves as a narrative device, drawing the audience into the experience and affirming the authenticity of the performers’ interactions.

    Portfolio of Work

    Established Presence: I seek collaborators who have an established portfolio of work, whether it be on platforms like OnlyFans, PornHub, or other reputable adult content sites.

    Co-Performers’ Portfolio: A diverse and high-quality portfolio reflects a performer’s ability to connect with an audience and deliver engaging content. It also provides me with insight into their performance style, which helps in planning scenes that complement both our strengths.

    STI Testing and Consent

    Full Panel STI Testing: The health and safety of all performers are paramount. I require that all co-performers have undergone full panel STI testing with secure, verifiable results no more than two weeks prior to our collaboration. This ensures that we can engage in our work with confidence in our mutual well-being.

    Ongoing Consent: While consent is given at the beginning of a scene, it is an ongoing process. I am committed to maintaining an environment where performers feel comfortable expressing their needs and can modify or withdraw consent at any time.

    Conclusion: Crafting Content with Care and Collaboration

    In the realm of adult content creation, collaboration is about more than just the final product; it’s about creating a space where creativity, safety, and mutual respect thrive. By adhering to these principles, we can produce content that is not only erotic and engaging but also ethically made and legally sound.

    To my potential collaborators: if you share these values and are eager to create content that pushes boundaries while upholding the highest standards of professionalism, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can explore the depths of human sexuality and craft experiences that educate, empower, and excite our audiences.

  • Speaking Engagements

    Seska: Inspiring, Informing, and Empowering as a Public Speaker

    With over 25 years of experience as a content creator, entrepreneur, and advocate, I (Seska) bring a unique voice to every stage I step onto. I’m passionate about sparking conversations, breaking taboos, and sharing hard-earned wisdom to empower audiences to embrace their authentic selves.

    I’ve had the honor of speaking at SXSW, Concordia University, McGill University, University of Ottawa, Carleton University, and numerous conferences on sexuality, adult industry rights, and empowerment. My work has been published in Find Your Pleasure, Broken Pencil, and Naked Ambition: Women Who Are Changing Pornography. I’ve also been featured on HBO’s Real Sex Xtra, Pornocopia: Going Down in the Valley, and CBC Radio’s Between You and Me.

    Here are the signature talks I deliver:

    1. How to Have an Awesome Midlife Crisis

    Midlife can feel daunting, but it’s also an incredible opportunity to rediscover who you are and what you want. In this talk, I guide audiences on how to embrace midlife transitions, redefine their goals, and create a life filled with joy, purpose, and unapologetic self-expression.

    2. Perimenopause, Menopause & Post-Menopause

    This presentation transforms a topic often shrouded in silence into an empowering conversation. I share my personal journey through perimenopause, offering insights into symptoms, strategies, and resources. My goal is to help others approach this life stage with confidence, understanding, and self-compassion.

    3. How to Talk to Your Kids About Porn and Not Die of Embarrassment

    Let’s face it—talking to kids about pornography is uncomfortable. But it’s also crucial in today’s digital world. I provide parents with practical tools and scripts to navigate these conversations with honesty, clarity, and a focus on values, helping to foster healthy attitudes and open dialogue.

    4. What Is Ethical Porn & How to Find It

    In a world flooded with adult content, how do we distinguish ethical creations from the rest? I break down what ethical porn is, why it matters, and how to support content that aligns with respect, consent, and fair labor practices.

    5. 10 Things I Learned in 25 Years of Porn

    Drawing on my decades in the adult industry, I share valuable lessons about resilience, creativity, boundaries, and self-discovery. This talk goes beyond the industry to deliver universal insights about life, success, and authenticity.

    Why Book Me?

    I’m known for blending humor, compassion, and unfiltered honesty into my talks. Whether I’m addressing parents, professionals, or fellow creatives, my goal is to leave audiences feeling informed, inspired, and ready to take action.

    Let’s Work Together

    Are you looking for a dynamic speaker who can educate and entertain while tackling tough topics? Let’s collaborate.

    Contact me at inquiries@seskalee.com, and let’s start planning an unforgettable event. Let’s create conversations that matter.