Seska: Inspiring, Informing, and Empowering as a Public Speaker

With over 25 years of experience as a content creator, entrepreneur, and advocate, I (Seska) bring a unique voice to every stage I step onto. I’m passionate about sparking conversations, breaking taboos, and sharing hard-earned wisdom to empower audiences to embrace their authentic selves.

I’ve had the honor of speaking at SXSW, Concordia University, McGill University, University of Ottawa, Carleton University, and numerous conferences on sexuality, adult industry rights, and empowerment. My work has been published in Find Your Pleasure, Broken Pencil, and Naked Ambition: Women Who Are Changing Pornography. I’ve also been featured on HBO’s Real Sex Xtra, Pornocopia: Going Down in the Valley, and CBC Radio’s Between You and Me.

Here are the signature talks I deliver:

1. How to Have an Awesome Midlife Crisis

Midlife can feel daunting, but it’s also an incredible opportunity to rediscover who you are and what you want. In this talk, I guide audiences on how to embrace midlife transitions, redefine their goals, and create a life filled with joy, purpose, and unapologetic self-expression.

2. Perimenopause, Menopause & Post-Menopause

This presentation transforms a topic often shrouded in silence into an empowering conversation. I share my personal journey through perimenopause, offering insights into symptoms, strategies, and resources. My goal is to help others approach this life stage with confidence, understanding, and self-compassion.

3. How to Talk to Your Kids About Porn and Not Die of Embarrassment

Let’s face it—talking to kids about pornography is uncomfortable. But it’s also crucial in today’s digital world. I provide parents with practical tools and scripts to navigate these conversations with honesty, clarity, and a focus on values, helping to foster healthy attitudes and open dialogue.

4. What Is Ethical Porn & How to Find It

In a world flooded with adult content, how do we distinguish ethical creations from the rest? I break down what ethical porn is, why it matters, and how to support content that aligns with respect, consent, and fair labor practices.

5. 10 Things I Learned in 25 Years of Porn

Drawing on my decades in the adult industry, I share valuable lessons about resilience, creativity, boundaries, and self-discovery. This talk goes beyond the industry to deliver universal insights about life, success, and authenticity.

Why Book Me?

I’m known for blending humor, compassion, and unfiltered honesty into my talks. Whether I’m addressing parents, professionals, or fellow creatives, my goal is to leave audiences feeling informed, inspired, and ready to take action.

Let’s Work Together

Are you looking for a dynamic speaker who can educate and entertain while tackling tough topics? Let’s collaborate.

Contact me at inquiries@seskalee.com, and let’s start planning an unforgettable event. Let’s create conversations that matter.